Networking: how much is too much?

Most of us have been taught that networking is a good thing right? “It’s all about who you know” At what point does all this “networking” become useless? Don’t get me wrong I love meeting new people and I think that was one of the main reasons I started going to all these events in the first place. But sometimes I wonder, am I networking, or just making friends? Or is it the same thing.

Gary’s Guide is a popular site for media and tech events that many people will use when planning their schedule. But how are you supposed to filter through all these events. The events listed just for Wed. Dec 17th is enough to make your head spin.


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NY:MIEG – 3rd Annual Holiday Breakfast Event, December 2008 NYC SPIN Meeting, BIM Cafe – Networking Event, Wall Street Technology Association (WSTA) Holiday Gala, Contacts & Cocktails: Private Equity, Venture Capital, and Angel Investor Networking Event, Entrepreneurs Roundtable 9, NYLUG – Matt Jamison on Fedora LiveCD & Holiday Pizza Party, Magnify.net Holiday Party, NAMIC-New York Holiday Soiree, The New York City Information Architecture December Meetup, The New York Affiliate Marketing December Meetup, New York Internet Marketing December Meetup, Digital Wednesdays @ Hotel Gansevoort, Innovation in the Music Business: An Action Learning Seminar

Sometimes there are crazy weeks where I seem to be at an event every night. Sometimes more than 1 a night. I have often found myself forgetting events because they were splashed across so many different social networks. I have tried to export everything to the calender on my phone but sometimes I miss something. How are we supposed to keep up with all these events? And what are we gaining from it?

These are some questions I often ask myself. Being in the tech scene in NYC you could easily go to a new event every night, but would that help you achieve your career goals? At this point in my life I am very young and the word “career” doesn’t seem to have a lot of focus. So I wonder if all this “networking” that I am doing will benefit me in any way, but along with all the business networking I have made some pretty amazing friends along the way. Being part of such a thriving tech community has truly added value to my life.

Do you think that networking events have helped your career? How many networking events are you attending these days?

Walking in New York City

this is a re-blog of a post from a friend of mine Michael Gruen

I found it very funny (and also helpful) I hope you enjoy!

Optimal Walking in New York City, a How-To

Walking in the city is a full contact sport. From one professional city walker to another, here’s how I do things.

Please note: this guide is intended for solo walkers. For couples and groups, many of these tactics are sub-optimal; however, they may prove useful for those serving as group leader in the mama duck role. If demand exists, I will expand and modify this guide to include optimal-walking recommendations for dates, business conversations, threesomes, and for groups four and larger. Please enjoy.

Principles

  1. Use the road.
    Don’t be afraid to walk in the street. Sidewalks, particularly downtown, weren’t built with a bustling metropolis in mind and are narrow in many places. If you’re stuck behind a slow-moving tourist, check for motor vehicle traffic, and walk in the street. The lights in NYC are pretty predictable, and likewise the traffic (when it’s not at a standstill). Take advantage.
  2. City blocks are not one-dimensional: cut corners wherever possible.
    If we take a city block and take a look at the cross-section, you’ll notice that streets have dimensions. That is, they have sidewalks, and road, parked cars, and traffic lights.
    Look at all that space between buildings!

    When walking down the street, look for opportunities to cross the street before an intersection or cross walk. But, don’t walk in a straight line across, perpendicular to traffic… cross at an angle.

    The Blue Line is how you’ve likely been doing things. Follow the red line next time… but watch for traffic!

    The other clear advantage to cutting the corner is that you often avoid most of the pedestrian traffic on both the sidewalk and the crosswalk. As discussed with principle #1, use the road. Don’t let dumplings* slow you down.

  3. When aggressively cutting corners and crossing blocks, prioritize avenues over streets.
    Avenues run along Manhattan top-to-bottom whereas streets run cross-town. In general, avenues are wider and are much harder to cross because city engineers prioritize uptown/downtown traffic flow over cross-town traffic. So, cross them when you can, and use the entire road (as in the red-line above.)Cross-town traffic tends to be at a standstill. Coupled with a narrower road, they’re much easier to cross.
  4. Avoid corners of immobility.
    On many street corners, particularly in midtown, some lights block you from crossing the street in either direction. Avoid these where possible.
  5. Show preference towards how the crow flies.
    Usually, walkers travel up/down-town and cross-town. If you max out your amount of up-/down- or left-/right-ness, you’ll be subject to the lights in one direction only– meaning, there’s a lot of waiting around. Sometimes, this is unavoidable, but keep it in mind.
  6. Cut through parks and building tunnels whenever possible.
    This should be obvious but for one caveat: sometimes those tunnels are filled with people. Often not, so check foot traffic density before committing, because they’re no way out.
  7. Avoid touristy areas, unless you don’t mind walking in the street.
    They’re full of dumplings… and for you tourists out there, the streets are where all the celebrity’s walk. They have about as much tolerance for tourists as I do.
  8. Avoid Construction Sidewalks
    You’re much more susceptible to being caught behind a dumpling. And, to boot, the area is often filthy with small ponds forming when it rains. Just walk around, in the street if possible.

I hope this has been helpful.

*Term coined by Oz Sultan

Bohemia Takes it’s final bows


This is a great article that I read in the Sunday times today. A great read for anyone who loves the east village. Here are some of my favorite quotes from the article

nytimes.com-
“I WAS late to “Rent.” Late to the show, and late to the city it portrays. When I arrived in New York, in the fall of 1998, bistros and boutiques had already infiltrated the East Village, gentrification was spreading into the Lower East Side, and northwest Brooklyn had largely fallen to the forces of the bourgeoisie.”

“Now, 12 years later, it would be impossible to see the show and think it was set any time in the past decade. Much of “Rent” has become downright nostalgic, almost jarringly so. Several numbers revolve around pay phones and answering machines (20-somethings with answering machines!). Roger, the gloomy, HIV-positive guitarist with a nasty case of rocker’s block, plays gigs at CBGB, then a landmark of the New York underground music scene, now a menswear boutique. A group of lefty hipsters talk politics with no mention of anyone named Cheney or even the first Bush.”

“THERE is a fascinatingly antagonistic attitude among the characters toward virtual reality and what they call cyberland. The creation of a cyber studio on a lot on East 11th Street is the great evil of the musical, seemingly more ominous than AIDS or drugs, and yet if “Rent” took place today, half the characters in the show would be blogging.”

“The fact that “Rent” the musical sells merchandise and $250 tickets is no more “ironic” than the fact that you can buy a copy of “The Communist Manifesto” at a corporate-owned bookstore (or that you can see “La Bohème,” the Puccini opera on which “Rent” was based, at the Met). That’s just how the business works.
Likewise, it’s missing the point to accuse “Rent,” despite its characters’ struggles with AIDS and heroin addiction, of being inauthentic. Of course it’s inauthentic. It’s a musical. People sing and dance. Could you imagine what an authentic musical about East Village squatters would look like? (Curtain time: Whenever.) What about an authentic musical about Irish and Puerto Rican street gangs, or Navy sailors in the South Pacific in World War II? I’ll take the ones we’ve got, corny parts and all.”

read the whole article in the link below

‘Rent’ Nears Its Final Performance, but Its Ragtag New York Faded Away Years Ago – NYTimes.com

New App coming to iphone 2.0: Loopt

gawker - The new iPhone will let you broadcast your location to people through a program called Loopt. And because this phone is now just 200 bucks, it’ll finally become an industry standard instead of a fringe geek toy. So get ready for the biggest annoying shift in your social life since Facebook.

The iPhone is now a reasonably affordable phone with a growing user base. It’s as cheap as an iPod was when that blew up. There’s Apple’s desire to change customer behavior, pushing technological advantages to the public that previously would only attract tech geeks. The iPhone makes people behave differently: They’re more apt to pull up web pages (iPhone users download five times the data of normal AT&T users), they treat texts like IM chats, and now they’ll assume everyone knows where everyone is.

So what does Loopt do? Say where you are, what you’re doing, maybe send a photo. It’s a lot of the stuff other sites already do, with the added benefit of pinning all the activity to a place. The company is pitching it as a way to know where your friends are, as often as possible. It will become normal to know, at a glance, where the people you know are. Here’s their demo from this morning:

And eventually, if you’re caught going out for a drink without inviting all your friends, some lonely acquaintance of yours is going to bug you about why they weren’t part of the group. Thanks a lot Apple.

Pure Digital introduces Flip Mino video sharing camcorder


It’s been quite awhile since Pure Digital’s YouTube-lovin’ Flip Video Ultra came around, but folks looking for its rightful successor can finally stop peering around every bend in vain. Announced today, the Flip Mino checks in at just 4- x 2- x 0.6-inches and weighs 3.3-ounces — a full 40% smaller than the previously mentioned Ultra. You’ll also find 2GB of internal storage for holding an hour of footage, along with a sealed rechargeable Li-ion, 1.5-inch anti-glare screen, touch-sensitive buttons and a TV output to boot. As predicted, this pocket-friendly camcorder comes ready to upload to some of the most popular video sharing sites on the web, and users in the US can procure their own (in black or white) on June 5th for $179.99.

Pure Digital introduces Flip Mino video sharing camcorder – Engadget

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